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Possessive adjectives + family vocabulary

o meu pai, a minha mãe — and the family vocabulary that goes with them.

Possessives in Portuguese behave like adjectives: they agree with the thing owned in gender and number. And — the part that surprises learners coming from Spanish or English — in European Portuguese the possessive almost always travels with the definite article: o meu pai (literally 'the my father'), a minha mãe, os meus irmãos, as minhas amigas. Today's vocab pairs the possessives with the family words you'll use them with.

The possessives — the shape

meu / minha / meus / minhas = my. teu / tua / teus / tuas = your (informal, tu). seu / sua / seus / suas = his/her/your (formal or você). nosso / nossa / nossos / nossas = our. vosso / vossa / vossos / vossas = your (plural — used in Portugal; rare in Brazil). deles / delas = their (literally 'of them'). The possessive matches the noun, not the owner — a minha casa is feminine because casa is, regardless of who owns it.

PT vs BR — the article

European Portuguese keeps the article in front: o meu pai, a minha mãe, os meus filhos. Brazilian Portuguese usually drops it: meu pai, minha mãe, meus filhos. Both are correct in their register. Speekeet defaults to the European form (with article); we accept the Brazilian form as an alternative.

seu / sua — handle with care

seu is a chameleon. With você it means 'your'; with ele/ela it could mean 'his' or 'her'. Context usually decides. When ambiguity matters, Portuguese disambiguates with dele (his) or dela (her): a casa dele = his house, a casa dela = her house. In Brazil this is almost the default — seu has drifted to mean mostly 'your'.

Family vocabulary

pai = father / dad. mãe = mother / mom. filho / filha = son / daughter. irmão / irmã = brother / sister. avô / avó = grandfather / grandmother (the difference is the accent: avô has a closed ô, avó an open ó). tio / tia = uncle / aunt. primo / prima = cousin. marido = husband, mulher or esposa = wife. The masculine plural covers mixed groups: os pais = the parents (or 'the dads'), os filhos = the children (or 'the sons').

Putting it together

O meu pai é português = My father is Portuguese. A minha mãe trabalha em Lisboa = My mom works in Lisbon. Os meus irmãos são jovens = My siblings are young. A nossa casa é grande = Our house is big. As minhas amigas falam inglês = My (female) friends speak English. The article-possessive-noun chain stays glued: don't drop the article in writing if you're going for European Portuguese.

Examples

o meu pai
my father
European Portuguese keeps the article. Brazilian: meu pai.
a minha mãe
my mother
minha agrees with mãe (feminine).
os meus irmãos
my brothers / my siblings
Masculine plural. A mixed group of brothers and sisters also uses irmãos.
as minhas amigas
my (female) friends
All-female group → as minhas amigas.
a tua casa
your (informal) house
teu / tua is the tu possessive. Brazilian speakers using você say a sua casa or just sua casa.
a casa dela
her house
dela = de + ela. Disambiguates from the ambiguous a sua casa.
Os nossos filhos são pequenos.
Our children are small.
nossos + filhos. filhos can mean 'sons' or 'children'.

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